New Romantic
In a career spanning
almost 30 years Toyah Willcox has been a
succesful recording artist, film and stage actor,
writer and businesswoman. She talks to Fitness
First about beauty, image and writing her
compellingly open and honest account of her
recent facelift.
Q. We live in a very
image-obsessed age and on one hand, some might
see this as evidence of our shallowness, others
might argue that failing to make the effort to
look one's best indicates somehow a lack of
self-respect or ambition. Do you feel that
society should place so much importance on image
and do you think this puts too much pessure on
people - particularly the young?
A. Society has placed
importance on image from as far back as the
Pharaos. Image has set Kings and Queens apart
from the comon hordes throughout the centuries
therefor it is only natural in all cultures for
people to question if their image reflects their
successes in life, whether it be in finding a
mate, or getting a job or in getting a role in a
movie. There is nothing shallow about
self-appearance because I believe it is natural
to care about one's looks.
Do we put too much
importance on image? Only when obsessed with an
unnatural level of perfection. I do get
despondent with the media for selling us what is
beautiful and what is not, because surely beauty
should be about celebrating diversity, but it
seems we only get the 'Barbie doll' images
shining happily from our magazine pages.
I have always said that if
we can teach our sons to believe they are leaders
from an early age then we can teach our daughters
the same and that goes for enforcing self-worth.
It is a crime to give the young the impression
that ageing is something to fear or to be ashamed
of. That said I neither fear nor feel shame in
the ageing process I simply want to prolong a
quality of life in an industry that will always
be image conscious. I love my work and I love the
entertainment industry, telling me to go away and
have therapy so I can learn to age gracefully
would be like telling a porn star to have therapy
to remain a virgin. I fully accept the values of
my workplace.
Q. In Diary Of A Facelift
you recount a story about how, despite Katharine
Hepburn's incredible talent her earliest reviews
were all (negatively) about her appearance. Did
you feel that your own achievements over the
years were being sidelined by the public's
preoccupation with looks?
A. It is true that in
recent years my looks dominated my achievements
when it came to critical comment. You say in your
question 'the public's comments' - the public
have nothing to do with this, they are passive
readers. The comments I received were media
reaction, people who decided it was more
worthwhile to say I looked 'haggard' than to say
'wow what a great performance', that's life, it
doesn't alter my talent, Iam still
talented, it doesn't alter my ambition, I am
still ambitious, and all it does is stop me
buying the newspapers and buy their rivals
instead.
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Q. Fitness First
recently commissioned a survey that revealed that
15 per cent of British people would be prepared
to pay over £10,000 to wake up tomorrow and find
their body in the best shape it could possibly
be. Do you feel that beauty will become more
viewed as a commodity?
A. I find it surprising
that only 15 per cent said this, I thought it
would be more like 60 per cent. undoubtedly to
some, beauty is a commodity, I can think of a
hundred examples and not all of them are
flattering. But what I have undergone is not
about beauty it is about 'freshening up' and
liberating myself from a potential 40 years of
ageist reviews and comments such as 'are you
angry?', 'have you been crying?', and 'are you
not well?'. I'm 46 I have at least another 40
years in me and I want those years to be happy,
after all I have worked for it and have saved for
it, so is beauty increasingly going to be seen as
a commodity, yes - but I have news for you - it
has been since printing was invented.
Q. You refer to Sharon
Osbourne and Debbie Harry as being the only
people prepared to admit their cosmetic surgery.
Why do you think there is so much more stigma
attached to facial surgery as opposed to say,
breast enhancement?
A. I admire them for being
honest and admitting to surgery in a hostile
environmant. Breast implants are asscoiated with
young women and latest fashion and face lifts are
associated with sad, ageing women, now that is
what I call shallow. Face lifts have been around
for over a century and have almost exclusively
been the practice of the super-rich.
In recent years surgery
has improved to the point that one need never
have to admit to having had it because it's all
starting to look natural (in the good cases). The
danger here is that if we don't talk about it,
misinformed women could go to 'cowboys' for
surgery and we need to regulate this industry.
Also we need to eradicate from our minds that
ageing means we step outside of society.
Personally I have never been more qualified in
life to work and advise and I am showing no signs
of slowing down. We have all seen in the space of
a few years that the 30's are becoming the new
20's and 40's becoming the new 30's, we are all
remaining healthier longer, this will mean we
will remain sexually active longer and I don't
know anyone who has sex and doesn't care about
their image.
Q.
Having your Diary published was an extremely
brave and possibly risky step - was your
motivation to achieve some sort of catharsis or a
genuine desire to help others by recounting your
experiences and your delight with the obvious
positive result?
A. I wrote the book
because if I see another advert for a beauty
product with a surgically-enhanced model
promoting it, I will scream and if I meet another
woman who tells me she looks 10 years younger
than she is, because she drinks water, I will
scream again. Surgery is very, very common. It
needs to enter our every day vocabulary in order
to protect those who are considering it.
Q. During your career you
have successfully reinvented yourself on numerous
occasions and it is quite evident that you are
thrilled with both your appearance and your self
image at the moment - do you have any more
surprises left for us?
A. Do I have any other
surprises left? Well of course. Where there is
secrecy there is the element of surprise, just
watch this space.
Diary Of A Facelift by
Toyah Willcox is avaialble at all good bookshops
priced £14.99 in illustrated hardback.
It includes a detailed
appendix of practical advice aimed at anyone
considering or about to undergo facial
surgery.
Fitness First
Summer 2005
Thanks to Steven Askey
& Paul Lomas
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